The twinkling lights, the smell of Christmas cookies, the merry melodies – Christmas truly is my favourite time of year. Yet, amidst the tinsel and festivities, it’s all too easy for the jolly whirlwind to throw our mental well-being off balance. As you immerse yourself in the magic of Christmas, it’s important to nurture your mental health with a bit of self-care. So, here are five ways to help keep you shining through this season.
Set Realistic Expectations
While we all envision the perfect holiday let’s be honest, no one’s Christmas looks like a Pinterest board. So why set the bar so high? Embrace the beauty of imperfections and set realistic expectations. Whether that’s a slightly wonky Christmas tree or a few less-than-perfectly-iced cookies – these things only add to the charm.
Amid the hustle and bustle, take a moment each day to reflect on the things you’re grateful for. Whether it’s a warm mug of cocoa, a festive decoration, or time spent with loved ones, practising gratitude can really help to boost your mood.
It’s easy to become overwhelmed by the various demands that Christmas brings and to keep your focus on making others happy. However, it is also important to take the time to do what makes you happy too. Learn to say no when necessary and establish healthy boundaries. Allocate time for self-care activities that nourish your mind, body, and soul. Whether that’s indulging in some Christmas chocolates whilst watching your favourite Christmas movie or enjoying your favourite glass of drink after the kids are in bed, do you for a change!
Christmas is a time for connections, but it’s important to ensure that those connections bring positivity. Surround yourself with people who uplift and support you. Reach out to friends and family and those your love, to maintain a sense of belonging. And if at any point you feel like you need extra support don’t be afraid to reach out to your GP or a charity like MIND.
Mindfulness is such a wonderful practice that helps ground you in the moment and helps you become more aware of your thoughts and feelings. Engage in mindfulness practices, such as deep breathing, meditation, or a simple walk outdoors. These practices can help you manage stress, feel less overwhelmed and stay attuned to your emotions.
Remember, your mental health is something that merits tender care every day, including the festive season. By using these simple strategies, you can navigate the busy holiday period with a sense of balance and well-being, ensuring that your Christmas is truly a joyful and peaceful time (or atleast as peaceful as it can be!)